Need some advice from my friends:
I've been seeing this girl for about 4 months now. It's been on and off because she's been battling with anxiety and mental health issues. It seems like she's been into me though. Every time she struggled with her mental health, I stood by her and always checked in on her. Constantly reminding her that I like her for who she is and without judgment. This past week or so has been great with communication. We even made plans for this weekend and for her to stay with me on Saturday night.
Yesterday I went to the doctor because I had a lot of blood in my urine. The doctor told me I had kidney stones, but also had contracted chlamydia. Since her and I have been seeing, she's been the only one I've been seeing. I was so afraid to tell her about it when I found out, but I called her and told her the truth. Understandably she was upset. She mentioned that she got tested before we got together. I believe her. I took responsibility regardless of the matter.
I asked if she was going to stop talking to me or think of me differently. I really freaked out because I genuinely didn't want to lose her. It felt terrible doubting her and she mentioned that I need to be more confident with us.
Last night I thanked her for supporting me and being understanding. She said she had my back. Later on we said good night to each other, she wished me sweet dreams and still called me handsome.
Today she started a new job. I was reallu proud of her because she had been struggling with anxiety at her last job and finding a newShow more
I've been seeing this girl for about 4 months now. It's been on and off because she's been battling with anxiety and mental health issues. It seems like she's been into me though. Every time she struggled with her mental health, I stood by her and always checked in on her. Constantly reminding her that I like her for who she is and without judgment. This past week or so has been great with communication. We even made plans for this weekend and for her to stay with me on Saturday night.
Yesterday I went to the doctor because I had a lot of blood in my urine. The doctor told me I had kidney stones, but also had contracted chlamydia. Since her and I have been seeing, she's been the only one I've been seeing. I was so afraid to tell her about it when I found out, but I called her and told her the truth. Understandably she was upset. She mentioned that she got tested before we got together. I believe her. I took responsibility regardless of the matter.
I asked if she was going to stop talking to me or think of me differently. I really freaked out because I genuinely didn't want to lose her. It felt terrible doubting her and she mentioned that I need to be more confident with us.
Last night I thanked her for supporting me and being understanding. She said she had my back. Later on we said good night to each other, she wished me sweet dreams and still called me handsome.
Today she started a new job. I was reallu proud of her because she had been struggling with anxiety at her last job and finding a newShow more
